Love
is a learning process. You might as well go back to
school as fall in love - it's a lesson either way. Before
we talk about your special someone, this is what's in
store for your sign:
Aries needs a challenge, although rash ways tend to
get Aries into complicated tangles. Taurus and Cancer
need to learn to LET GO. Geminis find that superficiality
can cost - they learn that character counts. Leo needs
to learn to balance opposing pressures of work and home.
Being the object of someone else's fixation is Virgo's
big lesson. Libra wears the trousers as easily as she
wears colognes and silk flowers. Scorpio never knows
what (or who) will be next. Sagittarius has trouble
staying single, and why bother? Capricorns need to express
themselves more, and they realize that there's more
to love than just mutual need. Aquarius is used to being
popular, but this is ridiculous - some of these wooers
are here today, gone tomorrow. Pisces longs for new
experiences with old friends - the novelty wears off
very fast indeed, and then Pisces longs for that lost
novelty.
Now here's what to expect from your would-be bride.
Will she marry you? Find out:
ARIES (March 2-April 19) She was born dynamic,
temperamental and headstrong. You must be quite a guy
even to be wondering how to settle her down. Actually,
she enjoys being stood up to and becomes pretty reasonable
when respectfully opposed. Once you've gained her confidence,
she becomes a lovely companion, full of energy and ideas.
A natural leader, she likes following when she feels
she's in capable hands. Let this woman know how you
feel about anything at all, and never ignore her. Lacking
in diplomacy herself, she admires it tremendously in
others (she often falls hard for diplomatic Libra men),
so display your smooth skills when all else fails. Give
her goals to strive for and, yes, she will marry you
and accompany you right to the top.
TAURUS (April 20-May 20) Will she marry you?
Well, she's going to marry someone, isn't she? If you
are what you seem (no phonies need apply) and you share
her sensual appreciation for the finer things of life,
you may, after a properly lengthy period of consideration,
obtain her consent. Be sure that a one-and-only is what
you have in mind, since she is commitment-oriented.
It takes her so long to make up her mind for a reason:
Once she's agreed to share her life with you, she'll
do everything in her considerable power to make it last.
She is strong, dependable and a wonderful mother and
homemaker. She is patient and practical, and has a wonderfully
detached judgment in emotional matters, but she needs
to be encouraged to keep her figure. Congratulations,
if you get her.
GEMINI (May 21-June 21) As usual, she is of
two minds on the subject of marriage - she loves the
security of one relationship, but she loves the whirl
of playing the field. To gain her exclusive affections
- well, you can't - but you can gain her fidelity by
providing a whirl of your own: a sense of humor, lots
of fun, conversation and socializing will do fine. Find
out right away which games she likes - some of these
women are athletic, while others love mental gymnastics
most. Don't assume that she'll marry you just because
she accepts your proposal - she may be on-again, off-again
about the whole thing right up to the altar. It's just
nerves, so don't worry. If you can catch her, she makes
a wonderful life partner: This clever, funny girl will
never grow old.
CANCER (June 22-July 22) Since this sign rules
the home and family scene, you'd think it would be natural
for a Cancer lady to be marriage-minded. Well, think
again. Sure, she loves to cook, has her apartment done
just so and spends time with her mom - but you may be
courting a very dynamic career-type here, with personal
assets that are on their way to wealth. If she's providing
her own security in the manner to which she was born
accustomed, you will have to provide some very worthwhile
companionship to turn her head. Use affection shamelessly
in pursuit of this woman: Love her from-scratch dinners
(where does she find the time?), love her often-excellent
advice on business and emotional matters, and hug her
a LOT. If you win her, you have a supporter and ally
who will stand by you unconditionally, someone to build
a life (or an empire) with!
LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) Pay no attention to those
who say this woman is a showpiece - she is strong and
career-oriented (at least this year). She is INVOLVED
in life, and it shows in her presentation. She'd like
to be married, but not badly enough to take much guff
- frankly, there's another interested party waiting
in the wings if you don't work out. This lady retains
her appeal at any age, so she doesn't need to hurry.
Appreciating her accomplishments will get you further
than showing off your own achievements, however vast
they may be. She is irresistibly drawn to mystery and
understatement, so hold back. Leave room for her to
fantasize about what depths might lie beneath your surface;
tickling her imagination is the whole trick. Once she
commits, she gives her all.
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) This woman is so real
that she has no need to announce her presence with personality
- her intelligence, superb sense of style and sense
of humor make her a stimulating companion, and she knows
that her capabilities will speak for themselves. Her
one area of insecurity is her sex appeal - she is sometimes
vulnerable to guys who ignore her obvious mental and
organizational brilliance in favor of flattering her
sexually. She is a goal-setter, and if you are, too,
there is no more valuable ally. She loves the power
behind-the-throne role because she knows it's a more
viable position for getting things done than being up
front. The trick to getting her: Tell the truth, ask
her for health advice, and have a solid financial future.
LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) Everybody is after
this woman, partly because she is beautiful and partly
because she encourages you to fall in love with her.
She doesn't mean to lead everyone on, it just comes
naturally to relate to men romantically. Don't worry
- if you get her to marry you (and she does get married
- she doesn't feel comfortable in affairs), she will
be faithful and loyal and will turn herself into whatever
kind of companion she feels will enhance your life.
She's a heck of a partnership-oriented person, and she
will always keep your best interests in mind. She has
a weakness for hunks and may have been burned in an
early marriage to a good-looking no-goodnik. The mature
version of this woman is socially graceful, incredibly
capable and a wonderful mother.
SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21) This isn't going to
be easy - are you sure you're up to love with a Scorpio
woman? OK, you won't be the first to decide that a hard
time with her is more rewarding than an easy time with
a dozen other women. She is powerfully appealing and
paradoxical. She is practical and organized, and has
a fine mind for facts that she is willing to ignore
completely in favor of a hunch. She may be a better
business person than you are, so leave your ego behind
when you fall for her. She'll dominate you if you let
her, but she'd rather you were strong in your own right.
Leave her her secrets, if you know what's good for you.
She's possessive and more sensitive than people think
- you can win her over by recognizing how much she needs
love.
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 22) Frankly, she is
frank. This doesn't mean she is insensitive, though,
it means she has no time for petty pretense. For someone
so dynamic, she has a charmingly shy side. It's refinement,
actually, as she is the most mental, philosophical and
thoughtful of the fire signs. She may go to extremes
- she sees the larger social context and she does not
necessarily conform to the prevailing trend of thought.
She may participate in "alternative lifestyles" - it's
part of her constant study of life. Do you like animals,
especially horses? A plus for you. Do you live for tomorrow
and the growth it brings? She isn't into nostalgia,
although she enjoys history, since you can learn from
it. Marry her if you want a life of adventure.
CAPRICORN (Dec. 23-Jan. 19) Are you drawn to
her down-to-earth managerial ability or her Ova Gardner
cheekbones? Never mind - you're right to try to get
this lady to marry you, since she has the character
necessary for a lifetime partnership. Don't be put off
by her initial aloofness. She is discriminating about
whom she warms up to, but once you have won her heart,
she is deeply and warmly affectionate. She may appear
conventional, but she thinks for herself. The best approach
is respectful and a bit traditional: When it's time
to propose, let her know that you have goals to make
her future secure and fulfilling. She is not a mercenary,
but she takes life seriously appreciates your perceiving
her worth. She will try to be the ideal wife.
AQUARIUS (Jan. 10-Feb. 18) The secret here is
that this lady only marries her friends. How to become
her friend? Getting her attention may be a trick, as
she is a very popular, busy person. You don't mind if
her IQ is higher than yours, do you? She will drop everything
and work you right into her calendar if you suggest
an intriguing adventure: a hot air balloon ride, a visit
to a fortune teller, an ethnic meal in a part of town
no one else you know visits. She loves the unusual,
and she responds to an imaginative approach. To tell
the truth, Aquarians have so many friends because most
adults get more boring and self-centered with every
passing year. You'll win her if you've maintained your
youthful idealism and zest for life's possibilities.
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20) She's sympathetic,
a natural healer and awfully pretty - she can be really
funny, too. Don't even try this relationship if you
can't deal with possessiveness, since, if she falls
for you, she is going to want you all to herself. Don't
be fooled by her dreamy demeanor - she is a true survivor,
and with her by your side, you can overcome any adversity.
Build her confidence by being as open and frank about
yourself as possible - this is the easiest way to control
her possessiveness, too, which is really an outgrowth
of insecurity. She is psychic, and life with her is
like being permanently attached to a lie detector. That
mysterious magnetism you are drawn to never wears off,
though. She is fascinating forever. |