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  WINNING IN LOVE  
  Astrological personalities types seem to fall into three categories when it comes to winning in love
The Aries, Cancers, Libras and Capricorns are most likely to instantly fall in love at first sight, but also to put unreasonable expectations upon new loves. Because these four signs are quite impatient, they immediately make demands and this can cause even the most ideal love to have second thoughts. They win in love by pacing themselves. They lose when they start comparing new and old loves or when they refuse to end a lingering relationship that they know is over. Unrequited love for these signs comes when they are unrealistic - particularly when dating someone already spoken for. They triumph when giving romantic ultimatums to reluctant loves.

Taureans, Scorpios, Aquarians and Leos are looking for perfection in love often overlooking an old love that is truly dazzling. These signs win in love when they are a bit less conservative or adamant about a new love fulfilling all their fantasies - at least at the beginning anyway. They could lose when they refuse to compromise - especially in the more serious stages of a romance. Taureans, Scorpios, Aquarians and Leos have disappointments because they expect a partner to care a bit more than is reasonable - if they want that, they must make sure they reciprocate by being generous in other ways. These signs are so secretive in love they never mention love triumphs although there are more than meet the eye. Unrequited love stems from overzealous expectations.

Geminis, Virgos, Pisceans and Sagittarians appear not to put themselves on the line with love because they are so afraid of losing. These are the "multiple romance" signs always hedging their bets out of fear more than out of disloyalty. They win in love through their ability to sense what kind of support a new love needs. With this knowledge they can be skilled manipulators or talented psychologists. Yet, this understanding demeanor keeps them from finding true equality in love - and that is how they can lose. Notice that Geminis, Virgos, Pisceans and Sagittarians are always "rating" a new love. (It was probably one of these people who invented the "10" system of rating good looks!) This keeps them from complete intimacy, as they always seem to be a bit detached. They experience unrequited love because they often play the field letting an absolutely delightful partner go, and then - only later - do they realize that their constant analysis and noncommittal attitudes about love are what drove this wonderful love away.